Thursday, February 24, 2011

Restart your Resolutions

Can you believe it's almost March?! For Pete's sake! I  know many of you made New Year's Resolutions on January 1st - how are they going? It's not uncommon to lose steam as life often gets in the way of our very best intentions. 

In fact, I had the opportunity to speak with Amanda Greene, a reporter for Woman's Day, this week about this very topic. Her article, "Eight Ways to Recommit to Your Health Resolutions" is included here if you need some inspiration to get yourself back on track! Amanda and I chatted about how Nourish helps clients make and stick with resolutions, and we talked about ideas for recommitting to those resolutions if your resolve begins to falter. 

So, if your resolutions have fallen by the wayside, instead of beating yourself up, try to determine what caused you to get off track, and then simply recommit. 2011 will be here all year. 


Here's a link to the full article on the Woman's Day website.  And here's the article text, because Amanda is a far better writer than I...

8 Ways to Recommit to Your Health Resolutions 

Find out how to get back into your wellness routine—and stick with it

By Amanda Greene Posted February 23, 2011 from WomansDay.com

You've probably heard of "January joiners"—those eager gym-goers who sign up to get in shape at the beginning of the year, only to fall off the wagon by February. There's a reason it's such a common phenomenon: Sticking to health resolutions is difficult, especially when your ambitions are too high or not measurable. So we spoke to the experts to find out about common goal-setting mistakes and how to recommit to more obtainable aims. Read on to learn eight ways to revisit your wellness resolutions––and make them stick this time around.

1. Shrink your goals.

One of the most common reasons people fail at keeping their resolutions is because they bite off more than they can chew. "I find that my clients make New Year's resolutions that aren't really realistic," says Cristina Rivera, RD, president of Nutrition in Motion, PC. "They're great for about a week, but people can't keep them up forever." For example, one of her clients made a goal to give up soda, her favorite beverage. She went cold turkey and lasted about two weeks, then caved when the cravings hit. Rivera coached her to minimize her portions—a mini-can of Diet Coke, not a Big Gulp––instead of cutting out the drink entirely. 

2. Make your resolutions concrete.

Not only will setting a goal that's too big derail you, so will making a resolution that's too vague. "Saying 'I will eat more healthfully' isn't a concrete goal," says Junelle Lupiani, RD, nutritionist at Miraval, a wellness spa outside Tucson, Arizona. "Instead, say something like, 'I will replace my afternoon coffee and cookie snack with a piece of fruit, some nuts and green tea.' Being sure that your resolutions are measurable can help you assess on a daily basis if you're on track or not." Other specific—and doable––health promises that Lupiani recommends are vowing to eat a large salad every day or committing to starting each day with a whole grain and some fresh fruit. 

3. Don't wait to get motivated.

Many people assume they can't tackle their goals without motivation. So they wait and wait for that push to get them to the gym, but it never comes. "We have the belief that motivation has to come before action—'I felt motivated so I went,'" says Simon Rego, PsyD, director of Psychology Training at Montefiore Medical Center in New York City, "when in fact motivation often follows action." Take the gym, for example. Most people can attest to feeling extremely motivated after a sweaty workout, instead of before. To get yourself to exercise, Dr. Rego recommends giving yourself permission to leave the gym after five minutes if you want. Chances are, once you get moving on the treadmill, your motivation will have kicked in and you won't want to stop. 

4. Get some sleep!

That's right—the experts actually recommend hitting the hay in order to accomplish your goals. Why? Because a good night's sleep can help you achieve virtually any goal on your New Year's resolution list, says Pete Bils, vice president of Sleep Innovation and Clinical Research for Select Comfort. "Losing weight, exercising or learning a new skill are not human instincts; we have to work at them. You could call a sleepy brain a lazy brain—the human ability of resolve or willpower has been proven to be diminished without adequate sleep," he says. But it's not just about willpower; the amount of sleep you get affects bodily functions, too. As Bils explains, without enough sleep, ghrelin (the hormone responsible for regulating appetite) is elevated, while leptin (the hormone connected with satiety) is diminished. So, even if you consume enough calories, when you haven't gotten enough zzz's, your body will still send signals that it's hungry, which will likely lead you to overeat.

5. Set yourself up for success.

Sure, it's easy enough to resolve to eat more healthfully, but if you don't implement the necessary lifestyle changes you won't be able to succeed. "If you're going to have oatmeal for breakfast instead of your usual doughnut, you have to give yourself five extra minutes to boil those oats on the stovetop each morning, plus more time to eat at home since it's not a portable food," says Cherylanne Skolnicki, wellness coach and owner of Nourish wellness consultants. "Resolutions are really about finding out how you're going to integrate new behaviors into your life." So don't join a gym that you have to drive out of your way to get to—choose one that's on your route to and from the office. Or if you're trying to drink more water, invest in a reusable bottle so that you always have it on hand. 

6. Be patient.

"When you’re integrating a new exercise routine, your fitness levels will always change more quickly than your body composition. Fixate on how you feel and how you perform before you freak out about your weight and waistline," says Andrew Wolf, exercise physiologist at Miraval. As Rivera notes, healthy weight loss is only between one and two pounds per week, so give yourself reasonable time to make progress instead of giving up. Finally, Wolf advises implementing ways to monitor your progress that don’t involve a scale or your skinny jeans. Keep track of how many crunches you can do or measure your heart rate while you're on the elliptical machine to prove to yourself that you're getting stronger and more fit.

7. Think outside the box.

Don't throw in the towel on getting in shape just because you hate the gym. Losing weight doesn't mean you have to join a fitness club. There are plenty of ways to exercise outdoors—find a hiking trail or take your bike out for a ride, for example. Rivera is a fan of alternative forms of exercise, like Zumba classes. "If you have an active job, wear a pedometer and see how many steps per day you can log; if you hit 10,000 steps in a day, that's like walking four miles," she says. "Knowing how much you're walking could motivate you to push yourself even harder the next day."

8. Find a buddy.

The easiest way to make yourself accountable? Enlist a friend to help keep you on track with your goals. "I'd rather see you walk every day with a partner than run every six days by yourself," says Skolnicki. "If you can, find someone to meet you, whether it's at the gym or outside your front door. People's success rates go up dramatically [with a workout buddy]." Plus, she adds, working out in tandem is a great way for busy women to multitask: Not only will you get in a sweat session, but you'll also have the time to catch up with a friend.

Tuesday, February 22, 2011

The Question of the Day

Walking my kindergartener to the bus stop this morning, she mused, "The question of the day today is - Do you like reptiles?" As context, her class takes attendance by placing popsicle sticks with their names on them in the appropriate answer column to an ever-changing question of the day. Apparently, one of her classmates had chosen this question because he has quite an affection for reptiles. Ella, not so much.

She then said, "Know what I asked when it was my turn to choose the question? I asked 'Does your family eat dinner together?"  Now this is a child who knows the way to her mother's heart! After I gave her a big hug and told her how much I loved her question, she told me that nearly everyone had said that they did eat dinner as a family. There were just a few who did not. And with that, she was off to play with her bus stop cohorts and begin her day. And I was left thinking again about how much our actions as parents matter.

I've blogged before about the importance I place on the family dinner.  I'm glad so many of her classmates are experiencing this ritual, too, because it can be such precious time for families to spend together in the midst of our hyper-scheduled lives. If you've gotten away from the practice because life's become too hectic, maybe it's time to give it a try again, even once or twice a week. Find a way to gather around your table as a family and share a meal. The benefits are enormous and well worth the coordination effort it takes to pull it off.

Do you eat dinner as a family? It's the question of the day.










Friday, February 18, 2011

Why All Weight Loss Plans Work (with a few ifs, ands or buts)

Sometimes when I meet with a prospective client, I'm asked if I think a particular diet or weight loss plan works. And my answer is almost always a resounding yes!

Followed by a pause...and a few ifs, ands or buts

Here's why. When I first decided to become a wellness coach, I spent a lot of time researching various popular diets or ways of eating. In fact, the Institute for Integrative Nutrition, where I studied, included this as a core part of our curriculum. We studied more than 80 dietary theories in practice around the world. And what I can say without qualification, is that ANY diet or weight loss plan can help you lose weight. 

You can choose The Zone or the South Beach Diet, Atkins or Pritkin, Perricone or Scarsdale. You can do Weight Watchers or Nutrisystem, Jenny Craig or Optifast, Ayurveda or Body for Life or P90X.  And you can always find testimonials from happy followers explaining how well a given program worked for them. But the truth is, there's no real magic in any of them. In fact, the advice in one theory often directly contradicts the advice in another, yet they all can work.

But there's an IF. They only work IF they motivate you to burn more calories than you consume.  That's it. At the end of the day, it's the one common denominator to weight loss.

AND, not all of these programs will help you lose weight in a healthful way. Some of them, in fact, could be downright destructive to your health. They may lead to weight loss, but not without unwanted side effects.

Finally, all of these diets have worked for some people, BUT they may not work for YOU. Why? Because you are a unique individual with a unique biological makeup and a unique lifestyle that requires a unique plan. If I believed there were a one-size-fits-all approach to eating, I wouldn't be a coach. We wouldn't need coaches, in fact,  because we'd have one perfect system which would work for everyone. We'd all recognize that and follow it, and weight loss goals would be a thing of the past. 

It would be so much simpler if that were the case, but it's just not reality. We're far more complex as individuals than that, so discovering what works for you requires a highly personal journey...no ifs, ands or buts about it.

Tuesday, February 15, 2011

A (semi-failed) vegan experiment

My husband is very cooperative with my healthful eating experiments. VERY. He will cheerfully try anything I make and 99% of the time he finds something good to say about it. However, he met his match with the Vegan Pizza I tried last week. Poor guy. 

Here's the story. I had a Groupon for Whole Foods about to expire. I decided to use it on all the things I THINK about buying but rarely actually do. Things like:
You get the idea. Things a little off the beaten path. So one night, I whipped up a vegan pizza. Vegan crust, tomato sauce, Daiya vegan cheese (mozzarella style, so the package claimed), diced fresh vegetables, a few olives. Heated up the pizza stone. Popped in the pizza. Made a salad. Set the table.

We all thought it looked great as I cut slices for everyone. This cheese's big claim to fame is that it stretches like mozzarella. Which it sort of does. So after saying grace, we each took our first bite with anticipation. But for at least one of us, the first bite would also be the last.

Now, in full disclosure, our three-year-old loved it. Seriously. 

My 6-year-old said it was not as good as our usual "pizza cheese," but nonetheless happily chomped through her slice.

I said that if I ever WERE to be a vegan, I could eat this. But I'd certainly prefer mozzarella.

The baby didn't get any. Just gnawed on her plastic spoon in teething bliss.

My husband quietly ate his salad and left his slice with one big bite taken out of it on his plate. All the way through the meal. Never picked it up again! He was excruciatingly tactful so as not to give the kids license to do the same. But when I asked him what he thought, he simply said, "I'm not eating that."

In our entire ten-year marriage, I believe this was a first! For him the deal breaker was the texture of the cheese. It was creamy, sort of like cream cheese, instead of stretchy and chewy like mozzarella. It just didn't work for him. 

So, since we're not vegan, and since I value harmony in my marriage, mozzarella will clearly remain the cheese of choice in our house.

That said, what's the lesson? If you think it's "Don't make vegan pizza", you're missing the point. The point is to keep experimenting. In ten years, this was the first experiment that proved inedible. And that was only for one of us. 

Experimenting in the kitchen is fun. You have your whole life ahead of you and if you live it with only the same eight dishes currently in rotation at your house, you'll miss out on so many wonderful foods. Think about all the things you tried for the first time in the last ten years and actually liked! Keep experimenting.

And while you're at it, I highly recommend the Cocoa-dusted goji berries. Yum.

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

A Little Bird Told Me

A while back, someone introduced me to an online community called The Brave Girls Club. They do a number of pretty darn cool things, but my primary engagement with them is my subscription to their daily email called, you guessed it, "A Little Bird Told Me - Your Daily Truth from the Brave Girls Club". It pops into my inbox first thing in the morning with a dose of uplifting inspiration that I just adore. Often I read it and think, "How did they KNOW that I needed to hear EXACTLY that on EXACTLY this day?!" Synchronicity in action.

As an example, here was today's email:

Dear Unique Girl,

Everyone has a different journey. So different, in fact, that new lessons can be learned every single day from each other's journeys. Your friends' journey are different from yours. Your children's are different, too. Your parents also went on an entirely different journey than the one that is meant for you.


That is why it is so important not to compare, criticize, or complain. We often have the tendency to compare the worst of what we are living through with the best of what others are enjoying. Everyone has the exact path, with the exact battles and the exact joys that are meant for them. We all learn in different ways, and we can all learn so much from each other, too.


So live YOUR life. Love YOUR life. Make the most of YOUR life. And whenever you have the chance to meet another fellow traveler along the road of life, lend a helping hand whenever you can. An encouraging smile or a kind word or two. Be happy when good things happen to others and show compassion when difficult things come along. Remind those you know that ALL of it is good. ALL of it.


All of it is meant for our growth and our ultimate joy.


Keep being the fabulous YOU that YOU are.


xoxo

"A little bird told me" - your Daily Truth from The Brave Girls Club - http://www.bravegirlsclub.com


See what I mean? Check it out for yourself. Subscribe. And when that first email arrives that you swear was written JUST FOR YOU, you'll be so very glad you did. 

Friday, February 4, 2011

SUPERBOWL weekend!



Are you ready for some football?? If you're like most Americans, your weekend plans include a party this Sunday as friends gather for Superbowl XLV. Whether your interest leans toward the game (my husband) or the commercials and post-game episode of Glee (me) or the chance to run merrily around the house with friends (our children), it's an awfully nice way to spend a Sunday evening.

Game-day munchies come with the territory, of course, and I'm looking forward to some favorite indulgences just as much as you are. If you're also interested in adding a few healthier options to the mix, here is a lightened up version of a Superbowl favorite as well as some previously-posted ideas you might consider making for the big day.

Whether you will be wielding a Terrible Towel or wearing a Cheese Head, these are sure to be a hit with your party crowd.  Enjoy the game!


Southwestern Bean Dip

1 16-ounce can nonfat refried beans, preferably “spicy”
1 15-ounce can black beans, rinsed
4 scallions, sliced
1/2 cup prepared salsa
1/2 teaspoon ground cumin
1/2 teaspoon chili powder
1/4 cup pickled jalapeño slices, chopped
1 cup shredded Monterey Jack, or Cheddar cheese
1/2 cup reduced-fat sour cream
1 1/2 cups chopped romaine lettuce
1 medium tomato, chopped
1 medium avocado, chopped
1/4 cup canned sliced black olives


Directions:

1. Combine refried beans, black beans, scallions, salsa, cumin, chili powder and jalapeños in a medium bowl. Transfer to a shallow 2-quart microwave-safe dish; sprinkle with cheese.
2. Microwave on High until the cheese is melted and the beans are hot, 3 to 5 minutes.
3. Spread sour cream evenly over the hot bean mixture, then scatter with lettuce, tomato, avocado and olives.


Other ideas:




Tuesday, February 1, 2011

It's Love Month!

My daughter woke up this morning and declared "It's Love Month!" Now that's what I call waking up on the right side of the bed! If you hadn't thought about it in quite that way before, perhaps it's time to consider how you'll celebrate Love Month this year. How will you show love to those around you? And perhaps even more importantly, how will you treat yourself for the next 28 days? (Why does Love Month have to be the shortest one, anyhow?)

If you need a little inspiration, here are a few ideas:

- Begin every day by greeting yourself in the mirror and saying something nice for once.

- Treat yourself to fresh flowers despite the snow and ice scene playing out all around us.

- Schedule date night - with yourself! 
      What movie have YOU been longing to see (Toy Story 3 does not count)? 
      What book have you been meaning to read? 
      What restaurant have you wanted to try? Now's the time!

- Make yourself an adorable breakfast like the one pictured above.

- Choose the very best food for yourself - at the grocery store, at home, in a restaurant. No scarfing down half-eaten chicken nuggets off your kids' plates. What do YOU crave?
 
- Listen to great music in the car.

- Find a workout that moves you. Try Hot Yoga...or Pilates...or Zumba...or whatever makes you want to get up and move!

- Make yourself over - get a new haircut or a new lipstick or a new outfit - anything that makes you feel great.



- Stop comparing yourself to others. Love yourself for who YOU are, not for how you stack up vs the competition.

It's February, friends. All you need is love.